八二 遙 控
有個弟子個性怯懦，他想尋回自信心，大師說：「你想由他人的眼神中獲得肯定，而且認為這就是自信。」
「難道我不該重視別人的意見？」
「正好相反，重視別人所說的，但不受它的箝制。」
「該如何突破別人的箝制？」
「你該問：如何突破自己的錯覺？」
REMOTE CONTROL
To a shy disciple who wanted to become self-confident the Master said, “You look for
certainty in the eyes of others and you think that is self-confidence.”
“Shall I give no weight to the opinion of others then?”
“On the contrary. Weigh everything they say, but do not be controlled by it.”
“How does one break the control?’
“How does one break a delusion?’