'To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better.
Concentrate on this sentence... 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.' Something good will happen to you today; something that you have been waiting to hear.
There comes a point in your life when you realize:
Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.
--Author unknown
救恩的普世性
不要害怕
积极生活 每天当最后一天
因缘际会认认天主教枢机主教单国玺后,我常利用诊所空档之际,与他电话聊天。从小就不喜欢读书、逃学无数的我,是当 时 老师眼中的问题学生。人生经历多次转折,如今当了医师,面对病人的生老病死,感触良多。日常生活遇到不解之处,自然就讨教良师益友的单枢机,每次总得到父亲般亲切的答复。昨天是他老人家九十大寿,我稍加整理其中印象深刻的对话,让社会大众了解单枢机鲜为人知的一面—智慧、仁慈与幽默。
我曾问:「我至今仍不是天主教徒,如何祈祷?」单枢机说:「天主的回应大都是看的,而不是听的。你每天在公园当环保义工,捡垃圾必须弯腰,种树苗自然就需跪在地上,这都是一种敬天的表现。你也参加义诊,照顾弱势,圣经上说:『凡为我最小弟兄做的,就是为我做的。』只要持续保持善念,做善事,天主必听得到也看得到,不必刻意。」
我请教「如何面对死亡?」他说:「很多人忌讳死亡,惧怕到甚至称为『死神』。我讲个历史故事:以前罗马有位若望保禄二十三世教宗,因年事已高,病入膏肓,全国最好的医师群费力地从鬼门关将他抢救回来,他回神后第一句话就是『死亡妹妹牵我的右手,小天使牵我的左手,正快乐地将我带向天堂,唉!医师们,你们怎么又把我拉回来呢?』死亡随时会来,将每一天视为人生的最后一天,积极生活。人生好比舞台,每天彩排死亡剧本,一旦无常到来,你才会自在无惧地迎向它!」
一般人印象中的宗教事务繁琐且严肃,我问单枢机可曾碰到什么逗趣的事情?他说:「严肃归严肃,该轻松的时候也该放松。我有个关於姓名的趣事:台湾有三位主教同时姓刘,有次开会我叫『刘主教』,三位都分不清楚。后来我笑说,这样好了,年长的称『大刘』,次长的叫『二刘』,最小的就是『三刘』,三位皆反对。要不然改成住北部的称『上刘』,中部的叫『中刘』,南部的自然就叫『下刘』,不知各位意下如何?众人听完大笑,开会的气氛也变得特别融洽。」
有一次,我关切地问:「单枢机,电话那头的声音,今天特别虚弱,怎么了?」「不瞒你说,我肺癌有复发的迹象,主治医师又加了另一种抗癌药物,吃了会恶心,泻肚子,全身无力。我已是『老废物』一个,既然天主旨意如此,我全然接受,只祈求加诸于我的痛苦,能换得天下苍生些许的平安。」
【联合报╱庄聪吉/医师(屏县潮州)】
【 2011/11/28 联合报】
Sand and Stone
TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING THROUGH THE DESERT
DURING SOME POINT OF THE JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE IN THE FACE
THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING, WROTE IN THE SAND , TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE .
THEY KEPT ON WALKING, UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS, WHERE THEY DECIDED TO TAKE A BATH
THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE MIRE AND STARTED DROWNING, BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.
AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE: 'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE'
THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND ASKED HIM,
'AFTER I HURT YOU, YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW, YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'
THE FRIEND REPLIED
WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE WHERE NO WIND CAN EVER ERASE IT'
LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE.
THEY SAY IT TAKES A MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON,
AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM,
A DAY TO LOVE THEM, BUT THEN AN ENTIRE LIFE TO FORGET THEM.
10 rules
1]Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.
2] So a Car's WINDSHIELD is so large & the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on.
3] Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.
4] All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.
5] Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond! If you get a Diamond, don't forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!
6] Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, GOD smiles from above and says, "Relax, sweetheart, it's just a bend, not the end!
7] When GOD solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when GOD doesn't solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.
8] A blind person asked St. Anthony: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" He replied: "Yes, losing your vision!"
9] When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.
10] WORRYING does not take away tomorrow's TROUBLES, it takes away today's PEACE.
人是怎么来的?
steal

I grew up in a small town of 1000 people where everyone knew everyone. One day when I was a young girl, I stole a toy from a department store there. I can’t even remember why I stole it, but, nevertheless, I did. When I told my mom later, she didn’t punish me, other than to say, “Don’t do it again.”
Shortly after, I was at the same department store shopping for a coloring book and colors. I realized that I didn’t have enough money for both, and I had to make a decision. Then, I remembered that my mom “let me get away” with stealing the last time, so why not just steal again? I bought the coloring book, and then walked back into the store, slipped the box of colors into my sack, and quickly walked back out. All the way home (which was only a block), I was chuckling to myself about how easy this was. I had no idea what was about to happen. When I got home, I told my mom (laughingly) what I had done, expecting the same response that she gave the last time. However, I was so wrong. This time, she had a different response, and I wasn’t prepared for it. If she had only disciplined me at home, I could have stood that. But, my mom drove me back to the store, made me give the colors back to the cashier (who was a good friend of my mom’s), tell her what I had done, and ask forgiveness. That was the most painful punishment my mom could have given me. At the time, I didn’t understand how a loving mother could do that to her child. But I look back at that day as a turning point in my life. From that day on, I have never had the desire to steal anything. My mom’s discipline made a lasting impact in my life. She has told me many times that it hurt her much more than it hurt me. I am grateful that she loved me enough to discipline me in such a way that I would not repeat the act of stealing ever again.
真正的喜悦与荣耀
『下辈子,无论爱与不爱,都不会再见』
送给儿子的备忘录
我儿:写这备忘录给你,基于三个原则:
(一)人生福祸无常,谁也不知可以活多久,有些事情还是早一点说好。
(二)我是你的父亲,我不跟你说,没有人会跟你说这些事?
(三)这备忘录记载的,都是我经过惨痛失败得来的体验,可以为你的成长省不少冤枉路。
以下,便是你在人生中要好好记住的事:
(一)对你不好的人,你不要太介意,在你一生中,没有人有义务要对你好,除了我和你妈妈。 至于那些对你好的人,你除了要珍惜、感恩外,也请多防备一点,因为,每个人做每件事, 总有一个原因,他对你好,未必真的是因为喜欢你,请你务必搞清楚,而不必太快将对方看作真朋友。
(二)没有人是不可代替,没有东西是必须拥有。
看透了这一点,将来你身边的人不再要你,或许失去了世间上最爱的一切时,
也应该明白,这并不是什么大不了的事。
(三)生命是短暂的,今日你还在浪费着生命,明日会发觉生命已远离你了。
因此,愈早珍惜生命,你享受生命的日子也愈多,与其盼望长寿,倒不如早点享受。
(四)世界上并没有最爱这回事,爱情只是一种霎时的感觉,而这感觉绝对会随时日、心境而改变。 如果你所谓的最爱离开你,请耐心地等候一下,让时日慢慢冲洗,让心灵慢慢沉淀,你的苦就会慢慢淡化。> 不要过分憧憬爱情的美,不要过分夸大失恋的悲。
(五)虽然很多有成就的人士都没有受过很多教育,但并不等于不用功读书,就一定可以成功。 你学到的知识,就是你拥有的武器,可以白手兴家,但不可手无寸铁,谨记!
(六)我不会要求你供养我下半辈子,同样地,我也不会供养你的下半辈子,当你长大可以独立时,我的责任已经完结。> > 以后,你要坐巴士还是宾士,吃鱼翅还是粉丝,都要自己负责。
(七)你可以要求自己守信,但不能要求别人守信,你可以要求自己对人好,但不能期待人家对你好。 你怎样对人,并不代表人家就会怎样对你,如果看不透这一点,你只会徒增不必要的烦恼。
(八)我买了十多二十年的六合彩,还是一穷二白,连三奖也没有中,这证明人要发达,
还是要努力工作才可以,世界上没有免费午餐。
(九)亲人只有一次的缘分,无论这辈子我和你会相处多久,都请好好珍惜共聚的时光,下辈子,无论爱与不爱,都不会再见。
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