八二 遥 控
有个弟子个性怯懦，他想寻回自信心，大师说：「你想由他人的眼神中获得肯定，而且认为这就是自信。」
「难道我不该重视别人的意见？」
「正好相反，重视别人所说的，但不受它的箝制。」
「该如何突破别人的箝制？」
「你该问：如何突破自己的错觉？」
REMOTE CONTROL
To a shy disciple who wanted to become self-confident the Master said, “You look for
certainty in the eyes of others and you think that is self-confidence.”
“Shall I give no weight to the opinion of others then?”
“On the contrary. Weigh everything they say, but do not be controlled by it.”
“How does one break the control?’
“How does one break a delusion?’