一九六 操 纵

大师坐在那儿听一位妇女抱怨她的丈夫。
最后,大师说:「孩子,如果你能做一个好妻子的话,你的婚姻就可以算是相当幸福了。」
「那,我该如何做呢?」
「别在拚命想把你先生改造为一个好丈夫。」
MANIPULATION
The Master sat through the complaints a woman had against her husband.
Finally he said, “Your marriage would be a happier one my dear, if you were a better
wife.”
“And how could I be that?”
“By giving up your efforts to make him a better husband.”